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Dating how can I find people with hiv to date ?

I need to have a sexual relationship without infecting anyone else???

  1. Hi, Pron85. Being intimate while living with HIV can be a difficult path to navigate. There are many options for us to protect those we are sexually active with. I want to point you to our team's article about transmission: https://h-i-v.net/risk-reduction

    While we are not medical professionals, there is now consensus that an Undetectable viral load also means an Untransmittable virus. Here is an article about that: https://h-i-v.net/living/undetectable-untransmittable

    I hope that you find the information you are looking for and are getting the treatment that can support your desire to find intimacy while living with HIV. Let us know how you are doing and how we can be there for you.

    Robert Brunet - (Team Member)

    1. I have been diagnosed 40 years and I have been intimate with and without the use of condoms and have never infected anyone. To God be the glory I believe that if two persons take that medication faithfully and their health transmission is zero.😇🌹😇

    2. Hello, , thanks so much for sharing your personal experience with this. I'm not sure if you were able to read the article that Robert shared above about the idea of "undetectable equals untransmittable", but I'll share it here as well, just in case, https://h-i-v.net/living/undetectable-untransmittable. Of course, it is alway best to have a discussion with one's doctor about transmission risk to be sure. We appreciate you joining the conversation here and sharing. -- Warmly, Christine (Team Member)

  2. I am absolutely sure along with being an HIV testing counselor for more than 30 years having three children who are all HIV negative and five husbands who are all HIV negative thank you for the information but I am positive about the information I provide

    1. Hi . It is great to hear that you have been so active in supporting the HIV community. Without knowing a person's background we have no way of knowing if someone is aware that undetectable equals untransmittable and we always want to stress the power of, as you put it, taking the medication faithfully. It sounds like your experience could certainly be helpful to many in the community. If you would ever like to share more of your story (absolutely no pressure), please feel free to do so in the Stories section of the site at https://h-i-v.net/stories. Best, Richard (Team Member)

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