Stigma of HIV as a straight man
I’m a good man, and would love to be married again. But when I do meet a female and we have a great connection, everything is going good and we are into each, when it comes time to being intimate I run from them and cut communication. I’m scared to tell them my status because i don’t want any judgement as to how I got hiv. There were a couple women that I really had feelings for too. I really want to believe that love conquers all but I fear that if I really have feelings for a woman and I reveal my status that she will run…
I can tell by your writing that you've been through a lot when it comes to stigma and dating. I know others here have dealt with the same problem, knowing when to disclose and feeling judged. It can make it so hard to open up to others. If you'd like me to link you to some of our advocate articles about dating, let me know. - Liz (Team Member) and being diagnosed has caused me to wear a mask and be a master of disguise. I just wish I could feel happy as I once was before my diagnosis. 
many in our community can relate to this feeling and you put it into words so perfectly. A "master of disguise" is a great way of saying it that I know many will connect with. It's such a frustrating and draining experience to go through, but please know you can reach out here anytime you need support. I hope the articles Liz shared were helpful, too. Please keep us updated on everything if you're able. -Casey (Team Member)
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, please keep us updated. I also hope for better days ahead for you and we are here for you along the way.- Liz (Team Member) 
We are Kalvin and Eunice Marshall a straight Seroconcordant Couple meaning we are both living with HIV and in a marriage or relationship the stigma is real being a single straight man or being in a relationship or married .you aren't alone in this please allow us to show you the many other straight men and women living with HIV and dealing with the stress and stigma but still enjoying life. You don't have to suffer alone or in silence.
Alafia (Peace) We appreciate you sharing such intimate thoughts. I had to get over my fear of disclosure and when I did I found the woman of my dreams. I say take a shot for loves sake. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)
