First timer woes
Hello i had decided to go to a freelance massuesse to pop my virginity. However my intention to have sex was quickly thrown out the window when i saw the setup of the location and the haste the women had, which made me think of them not being sexually knowledgable or responsible
I decided to just indulge in foreplay. It was done with my underwear on. Through out the session, the lady just kept running her hands up and down my legs and touching my penis through my underwear.
A major alarm bell hit me when she touched herself down there and reached over to touch the head of my penis, through the underwear. I immediately got upset dressed and left
My main worry is, at that point of time, if she had any vaginal fluids, and touched my penis, was that a risk? Through the underwear and into the urethra?
Another question that i have is, i was pretty wet when i arrived home and proceeded to was up, can the virus go through my underwear, and live in the precum that i produced, there by infecting me?
I apologize if my question had offended any admins that are gonne reply. I shoudnt have tot of breaking my virginity today 🙁
Will i meed testimg? Is PEP warranted?
, I am glad you reached out because I am sure it has been stressful tackling these questions. We are not medical professionals and cannot advise you about the use of PEP, but I can give you some information that may be useful as you make these decisions. As I understand it, you're concerned about transmission risk recently with someone who you did not know their status.
HIV can be transmitted through vaginal fluids that come into direct contact with a mucus membrane as explained in this article: https://h-i-v.net/transmission. It sounds like the mucus membrane was not in direct contact, but you are concerned about fluids through underwear. That depends on the specifics of that interaction, but if you are concerned, testing can certainly give you a concrete answer.
You can work with your doctor or at a walk-in clinic to get tested for both HIV and other STIs. More info on testing can be found here: https://h-i-v.net/test-types.Please keep us posted on how you are doing, and I hope this information can help you.
Best,
Liz (Team Member)Hi
, I just wanted to follow up to see how you are doing. - Liz (Team Member)
