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Had a handjob

Hello everyone, am freaking out here so I need help. I had a blow job from a lady but during the process she wet her palm with saliva and gave me blow job, this was intense and I later realized a little bruise on my penis, not the forehead. But it can also be cause by the penis coming into contact with my belt head. ( metallic). My question is, can she pass std or hiv if the saliva have the virus because of the small bruise which was not bleeding.
Looking forward to your valuable response.
Thank you.

  1. It was a hand job not blow job. I confused the terminologies earlier

    1. Hi . HIV can only be transmitted though blood, seman, vaginal fluids, breats milk and pre-seminal fluids.It cannot be transmitted through saliva. Here is an article about how HIV is transmitted that might interest you: https://h-i-v.net/transmission. The only way to know for certain though is to get tested. It might give you peace of mind. I hope this helps. Best wishes. - Lori (Team Member)

    2. Alafia (Peace) has provided you with a great resource to learn about transmission. I want to suggest that you try to be more careful if possible to reduce your anxiety regarding HIV. Please take care of yourself. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

  2. thank you, I just have anxiety tendencies. But am not sure saliva will transmit hiv. The article is valuable

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