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Hiv risk of Anal fingering

Friends, i went to a massage parlour, that girl had inserted her finger deep into my anus and hold it for 5-10 seconds and repeated 3 times during the whole encounter.

She also did a dry kisses on my lip and bited my lip once.

Now I am very afraid of catching hiv or any STD or STI. Please help me to clarify.

I am sure she didn't touch her vagina before 3 minutes because she came into the room and directly we had this. But I am not sure whether she washed her hands or not also she may had upto 5 customers before me in that day.

Incase if she touched her vagina fluids before entering the room or if she had any minor cuts on her finger.. will I get hiv or any STD/STI

  1. Hi . It is understandable that you have some concerns and a good thing that you are being proactive in seeking information. I want to share with you this article from from our editorial team that discusses HIV transmission, including the six fluids that can transmit HIV and the fact that it must come into contact with an opening in the skin or a mucous membrane: https://h-i-v.net/transmission. In addition, this article discusses differences in transmission risk: https://h-i-v.net/transmission-risks. You will note that amongst other things, biting is considered a "Negligible (incredibly low)" risk. I hope this information is helpful. Of course, if you know a place you would feel comfortable/safe getting tested is the way to be sure and to put your mind at ease. Best, Richard (Team Member)

    1. Hi Thanks a lot for donating your time. I have gone through the article and found that hiv cannot pass through closed lip kissing. If the girl touched her vagina fluids before 5 minutes of the act will there be any chances of the virus present in her hands and is there any risk for hepatitis as I read online that hepatitis virus could live for a week out side the body.

      1. I am sorry, if my question are silly here but i am very much worried

        1. Hi . There is nothing to be sorry about - it is not silly to be concerned about your health. I need to state that we are not medical professionals, but numerous medical sites that note that "While HIV can spread via vaginal fluids, the virus tends to exist in smaller concentrations than it does in blood and semen (see: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/324052)" and that the risk from fingering is extremely low, unless there is an open cut or sore. It is true that hepatitis can live for quite some time outside the body (see: https://risksafety.humboldt.edu/sites/default/files/risksafety/Bloodborne%20FAQs.pdf), but the transmission information is the same. Of course, the only way to truly put your mind at ease from the worry you are experiencing may be to get tested. Wishing you the best and please know that this community is here for you. Richard (Team Member)

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