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Im negative but he’s positive!

This is my first relationship with a guy who is hiv positive tho I must say he has been the best I ever had he feels nobody loves him or likes him or he feels disgusted of him self in I see a lot of potential in him I love him so much !! Thing is I want to tell some of my close folks in my family I love dearly but idk how they will react to him or me after I tell them

  1. Alafia (Peace) I totally understand your desire to share more about your boyfriend with close family. It's a difficult topic to disclose to anyone much less to family about a boyfriend. How does your boyfriend feel about you wanting to share with your family? Perhaps it is something you both cam do together. Please stay in touch and let us know how things work out. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

    1. Yes I will talk to him about it when he comes down to visit me next week I am excited to see him !!! Some people are not as educated about the disease so I feel that they will reject him in will
      Feel diguested with me as well

      1. Alafia (Peace( I am sure you are excited to see him. Glad he is coming down soon. Good that you are willing to talk with him and I believe you are coming from a good place. Wanting your close family to know him so you can live out lives. Good luck. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

    2. awww thank u love I appreciate it

      1. , I think it's fantastic that you are so accepting and loving about your boyfriend's status. I've been in a mixed-status relationship for 25 years and couldn't imagine my life without him.


        How did the conversation go about disclosing to those around you?

        1. that msg was for you

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