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Worried STD

Hi,

Sorry for my bad english.
I have sex with few girls. I used condom for penetration. I remember only two girls that give me bj without condom.

I dont do mouth kissing. I dont lick her private part. I only lick her breast.

Now, i develop symptom in my mouth. Recurring ulser. Ulser in throat. White tongue. I got few like pimple on scalp. So far my genital look fine.

Still afraid to go for blood test.
What is the chance i got infected?

Thank you.

  1. Hi . I need to note that we are not medical professionals and cannot, for your protection, provide medical advice or diagnostics over the internet. As noted in this article on transmission, there are only six bodily fluids that can transmit HIV - blood, semen, rectal fluids, vaginal fluids, breast milk, and precum: https://h-i-v.net/transmission. This article from our editorial team has information on early symptoms: https://h-i-v.net/symptoms. There are multiple potential causes of the symptoms you described. The fear of getting tested is certainly understandable, but it is the only way to confirm your status and early treatment, whether HIV or some other condition, is best. This article discusses the various tests and the testing windows: https://h-i-v.net/test-types. Please know that this community is here for you and feel free, if you like, to keep us posted on how you are doing or to ask additional questions. Best, Richard (Team Member)

    1. Alafia (Peace) Thank you for reaching out to us. My rule of law is, if you think you put yourself at risk then you are at risk. Try to push past your fear and get tested. The mental well-being which goes along with absolutely knowing your status is unmatched. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

      1. Alafia (Peace) How are you doing these days? Have you been able to push past your fears and go get tested? Its one of the best decisions you can make for both your physical and mental well-being. Let us know how we can support you through this process. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

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