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HIV Risk, worried

Good day Sirs/Ma'am,

Lately I've been going to massage parlors to receive happy endings, I did not have any oral nor penetrative vaginal sex on with the workers, just massage and handjobs.

Currently I'm experiencing symptoms like sore throat, spitting phlegm and chesty coughs, I am really worried and regretful of my actions and I'm refraining myself from going to such places anymore.

Am I at risk of anything? I am really worried and hope to seek advise from you guys.

Thank you.

  1. I wanted to reach out with some information because I know you feel so worried. I know your symptoms are troubling but as you describe (massages and handjobs) it does not sound like there is a transmission fluid (blood, semen, breast milk, vaginal secretions) that is in contact with an open membrane. There is a lot of misinformation about HIV out there, and I hope we can provide you with some reassurance. Here's a good article: https://h-i-v.net/living/testing-quiz - Liz (Team Member)

    1. Alafia (Peace) First, this is a space of no judgment. We are simply here to help and support those who reach out. After reading the article shared by LizGreen I hope you have gained more insight and it has been helpful in answering your question. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

      1. Alafia (Peace) Has the responses from us helpful? We hope you both reduce your risk and your worry. Let us know how things turned out. Khafre (H-I-V.net Team Member)

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