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Scared

Hi everyone, I want to share with you my story and I m sure you ll understand my fear.
I had a full unprotected sex on 2006 with a sex worker and few weeks later all symptoms came out even joint pain that made my life horrible. I didn t have the courage to do the test but in 2018 I decided to accept the death sentence by doing a rapid test based on a drop of blood in an anonymous association here in Morocco. Couple of minutes later, big surprise « negative » maybe a mistake was made by the guy but I tried to accept the result. My joint pain specially on lower body, didn t leave me so far but I was trying to convince myself that s because of anxiety and the test was correct. So I forgot the matter and my life was good after that. But this year, I started thinking again and my joint pain came back but very very severe so I went to the same place to do the test thinking that the first one was an error and this time they’d say I have the hiv. Same situation, one drop of blood and the guy says that I m negative, I didn t see the result but I m sure he wouldn t lie for such a serious matter !
Well both tests were different antibody test kits (3rd and maybe the second one was 4th gen).
I still have pains and can t stand normally on my feet without having pain. So I want to know if those rapid tests are accurate cause I can t move on with « my life » ! Btw I m 37 yo male. Thanks for your patience.

  1. you've gone through such a stressful testing experience with so many uncertianties. If I'm reading you correctly, you've had 2 HIV tests since an encounter in 2006 after which you had joint pain. The first rapid test (201😎 was negative, and then the more recent one is positive. Is that right?


    I would say if you got a positive HIV diagnosis, getting treatment as soon as you can is very important. Did the clinic that tested you speak to you about starting treatment? We have many resources on our site that I hope can help you. - Liz (Team Member)

    1. Not really. I have been tested twice with rapid tests (one drop) in 2018 and 2023, both negative 🙏 Didn’t see the second result but the guy would’nt lie ! It was in a anonymous organization / association that provide rapid hiv testing. The problem is that I ve had all symptoms and still can’t get rid of it. I m doubting about results …

      1. So your save if your negative, anyway you can re-make test again and double check to be sure your ok? I hope your negative. But what are symptoms which you mention?

        1. everything bro from night sweat after exposure, fever, dirrhea, pain everywhere. I still have hard joint pain specially in lower body. Actually I have made two rapid tests in Alcs but still don t accept results

      2. If test are negative, your negative and you have nothing to do with HIV, i myself haven t had any symptoms expect white tongue & snorking loudly while i am sleeping which everyone observe it due its extremely annoying, i believe you must do a check up or see a specialist doctor who might clarifiy what s going on with you? Don t worry much it s possiblity a mentally effect on what you thought so take it easy and relax, by the way where you based in morocco? If you message in private that would be cool as i need friends in my life due i am going through horrible preoid of my life

        1. where you were tested ?? What about the job your seeking ?

        2. bro, can I ask after exposure within how many days/weeks you were tested positive ? I mean what was the window period for you ? mostly expert say that 4th generation test can detected HIV within 4-6 weeks. is it correct in your case ?

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