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Undetectable and Moving Forward

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By Harold2758

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Hello! When I met one of my lovers. He was HIV positive and I wasn’t.

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I was looking for love in all the wrong places. That was a time when I didn’t love myself. So, after one night of hot sex, and no rubber. He decided to tell me he was HIV Positive the next morning. I stayed with him. And eventually entered into a no rubber relationship with him. Everytime we had mad sex, we used no rubber.

Undetectable and moving forward

After a few years, he gave me HIV. What was I thinking? Looking for someone to love and love me. Well, that was 1987. He died a few years ago. And I am HIV Positive. Undetectable. And I have been undetectable for many years now. I have not had sex in many years. I am waiting to meet someone. Date. Fall in love. And marry. All before I have decided to engage in sex.A picture of me. In my Burberry baseball cap

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