Living with HIV comes with unique challenges and strengths. What strategies or habits have you found most helpful in maintaining your physical and emotional well-being
Staying involved with the local HIV agencies and support groups. I'm soon to be 65 years old, it's easy for older gay men to become isolated, even HIV- men. I've learned to stay engaged socially to help with isolation. Mid-sized city, we have an independent HIV/AIDS organization besides the local health district. There are support groups and monthly potlucks available. We also have a LGTB+ social senior group who gather monthly for a potluck, 2 or 3 times a month out to restaurants for a meal and a weekly Zoom group gathering. When I pulled back too far from the community in the past, I noticed my depression levels increasing as well as isolation issues. I've been HIV+ since 1987, so I've gone through cycles of community involvement.
Richard FaustCommunity Admin
Hi . Thanks for sharing what helps you stay connected. As you note, isolation has a way of sneaking up on people. Our contributor Robert, also a long-term survivor, wrote about what he does to combat isolation and loneliness here: https://h-i-v.net/living/loneliness-is-a-killer. I also recall that you have been fighting to get disability. Has there been any progress? Wishing you the best. Richard (Team Member)